Offers step-by-step expert advice that empowers women to understand and overcome the conflicts they face at work with coworkers and managers.

Are you being harassed? Micromanaged? Or just plain annoyed by your gum-chewing, music-playing, lunch-stealing coworker? Are you ready to blow this popsicle stand and move on to a new job? Then let this book guide you through this process. Beginning with 15 common workplace personalities that you have likely encountered, this book helps you to diagnose your situation, and provides empowering strategies for dealing with this situation and preventing future disputes. Based on the latest research in the dispute resolution field, and decades of workplace mediation experience, these stories are based on real-life examples (though names have been changed to protect those who should be ashamed of themselves).

Women are finally being given the training and opportunities to succeed in the workplace, but societal norms are still in the stone-age. This book offers concrete suggestions for women to determine their boundaries and strategies for reinforcing those boundaries. Women shouldn't have to choose between being a baby or a bully. Women have amazing empathic and social skills-so why not build on those skills, armed with years of research and ideas, to create the career you have worked for?

Perhaps it's not just one mansplainer, or one frustrating coworker, but a whole department? Managerial style? Systemic issues? A toxic workplace that is in need of some major rebranding? This book is aimed at the frustrated employee, manager, conflict resolution practitioner, and HR office. There are simple skills to empower any employee. For the management team, learn how to design an effective training, identify red flags, triage employee concerns, and build a healthy workplace. As impossible as that may sound right now, it actually is achievable with some practical suggestions and a bit of work. So buckle up, grab some popcorn, and prepare for some great stories that will help you to take control of your worklife.

This is a light-hearted guide for the heavy-hearted employee. This is the only book to take decades of conflict research and workplace examples and brings them to the hands of those who need this information: the workers going through difficult conflicts. The purpose of this book is to empower women in a frustrating office to not just understand the conflict but give them the tools to grow through it.

This book takes the numerous academic studies about resolving workplace conflict, as well as experience from the mediation table, and provides a step-by-step guide for employees to resolve their own conflict. It is designed to be relatable, drawing upon numerous personalities, real examples, in a variety of settings, so that the reader can find comfort in knowing that others have worked through similar situations. The book is also humorous, to help ease the anxiety of a tense worker. The goal is to give the average employee the skills to understand and grow through their current workplace conflict. 15 frustrating workplace personalities and situations are described, and then examined from the female viewpoint or response.

About the Author

Clare Fowler, PhD, serves as managing editor at Mediate.com and as director of caseload manager. She currently teaches workplace mediation at the University of Oregon School of Law. Dr. Fowler mediates and trains, focusing on workplace disputes, and recently mediated for the Department of Interior, Oregon Courts, University of Oregon, and Google. Her recent publications primarily include articles on mediation techniques and online mediation skills.

Reviews

The Rosetta Stone for the workplace meets the Girlfriend's Guide: pithy prose, punchy examples, pragmatic advice - and with plenty of references to baked goods, Star Wars, Princess Diana, and even Mother Theresa playing video games and scarfing Cheetos. The voicing is relatable, like you and your BFF in your jammies, painting your nails, gabbing about everything on your mind . . . and sorting it all out together. Well researched, thoughtfully structured with "sticky" and repeated thematic tools, this is no fluff piece. It's versatile, offering depth and breadth - something for everyone, from the novice to the so-called expert. As a bonus, it will improve your vocabulary: if you don't know what katagelasticism or thanatosis means, you'll learn. Read to the end; you'll be rewarded with a yummy bonus (but don't skip to the end - that's cheating!)

-- S. Lucia Kanter St. Amour, Attorney, Mediator, Author, VP of Board, UN Women, San Francisco



Book Information
ISBN 9781538171271
Author Clare E Fowler
Format Hardback
Page Count 362
Imprint Rowman & Littlefield
Publisher Rowman & Littlefield
Weight(grams) 499g
Dimensions(mm) 217mm * 148mm * 27mm