This work addresses how funerals may be created which are not only relevant for the bereaved, but which also have theological integrity. The majority of the British population no longer attend church yet when bereaved, many still turn to church representatives to perform funerals for their loved ones. This book addresses how funerals may be created which are not only relevant for the bereaved, but also have theological integrity. A paradigm shift in the manner by which funerals are constructed is proposed - from imposing alien liturgies to creating a unique ritual which evolves from the meeting of the stories of the bereaved and that of the ritual leader. The argument for the co-construction of funerals is informed by contemporary models of grief and Kelly's own experience with bereaved parents.Co-construction is a process which is centred on listening and empowering, and involves offering the bereaved choices from a range of ritual resources to help them shape their funeral's content. Such a process facilitates sensitive regulation of grief in an age where its privatisation has meant the bereaved are often bereft of a means by which to benchmark their feelings, behaviour and decision making.
Addresses how funerals may be created which are not only relevant for the bereaved, but which also have theological integrityAbout the AuthorEwan Kelly initially studied medicine and worked as a junior doctor before completing a theology degree and becoming ordained as a Church of Scotland minister. He is now Lecturer in Pastoral Theology in the University of Edinburgh, UK.
ReviewsMention -Book News, November 2008
Review in Church Times, February 2009
"...the possibility should be offered and planned for, if we take the research and insights of this book as seriously as it deserves." Theology, November 2009
Book InformationISBN 9781906286149
Author Ewan KellyFormat Paperback
Page Count 224
Imprint MowbrayPublisher Bloomsbury Publishing PLC
Weight(grams) 300g