The romantic lives of emerging adults are often baffling and contradictory. While they prize committed and authentic relationships, they appear to be reluctant participants. They prefer to foster ambiguity in their romantic relationships, even as they value honesty and clarity. There is, at once, a valuing of long-term as well as a decentering of romantic relationships. Although our current understanding is incomplete, this text grapples with these perplexing questions. In attempting to understand emerging adults and their romantic lives, researchers must consider the challenging economic conditions in which today's emerging adults find themselves. With an emphasis on commitment and sacrifice and their centrality to one's readiness for a long-term relationship, this book reviews the main milestones in transitioning from an "I" identity to a "we" identity and discusses the concepts of choice and risk. Further, the book examines structures such as asymmetrically committed relationships, cohabitation, and marriage through the lens of commitment, risk, and risk avoidance. Probing extensively into the romantic lives of emerging adults -- their attitudes, values and expectations -- this text examines some of the developmental and contextual realities against which romantic attachment must be viewed. Critical topics such as casual and sexual experiences and relationships, integration of work and love, breakups, marriage, going solo, and social media and its influences are considered. The commonality and the individuality of the emerging adults presented throughout this text contribute to a rich understanding of emerging adults and how they live and love.

About the Author
Varda Konstam is Professor Emerita in the Department of Counseling and School Psychology at the University of Massachusetts, Boston. Her work is enriched by 30 years of teaching doctoral and masters level students as well as over fifteen years of working with emerging adults, couples, and families across a range of clinical settings. Dr. Konstam received her BA in psychology from the City College of New York and her PhD in School Psychology from Fordham University, New York. She has written two previous texts related to emerging adulthood and has published many articles on the topic of work and love during emerging adulthood.

Reviews
"Thoughtful and readable without relying on jargon. It provides a new perspective on the complexities of this developmental stage." * Choice *



Book Information
ISBN 9780190639778
Author Varda Konstam
Format Paperback
Page Count 384
Imprint Oxford University Press Inc
Publisher Oxford University Press Inc
Weight(grams) 544g
Dimensions(mm) 155mm * 231mm * 25mm