'Talking it Better' is a practical book about the everyday practice of counselling and psychotherapy, written by a practitioner for fellow practitioners. Using case studies based on his own clients, Elton carefully examines what helps - and what hinders - the process of change in the therapy room. At the heart of therapeutic work, he argues, is the development of effective mind skills. He explains how counsellors and therapists can borrow valuable ideas from the teachers of skills such as swimming, reading music or learning to drive. And he shows us that, when it comes to developing our mind skills, practice is often far more important than insight or theory. Marie-Anne wants to manage the sergeant major in her head who keeps telling her what to do. Calum wants to learn to hear what his partner is really saying, rather than what he fears she is. Isobel wants to stop rushing to help people and then resenting them because they take her for granted. These, and the many other characters in this book, were profoundly stuck until, through 'talking it better', each found a unique path taking them closer to the self they would prefer to be.

About the Author
Matthew Elton is a psychotherapist based in Edinburgh. He works with a wide range of clients and has a special interest in writers and artists. His formative training was in transactional analysis and he has since developed a strong interest in narrative therapy. Matthew regularly delivers talks and workshops in Scotland and across the UK on therapy practice and related matters. Previously, he was an academic working on the philosophy of mind at the University of Stirling, then a manager in the charity sector. He is author of a well-received volume on Daniel Dennett in the Polity Key Contemporary Thinkers series, published in 2003.

Reviews
'This beautifully written book has a lot to offer to both novice and experienced counsellors and psychotherapists, and alsoto clients. I would recommend it to anyone who is interested in understanding how therapy can make a difference.' Julia McLeod, Lecturer in Counselling and Psychotherapy, Abertay University. 'I read this book avidly, riveted by the author's creativity, the clarity of his presentation, and by the rich, compassionate case studies that weave through his writing from beginning to end. Practitioners of differing approaches and levels of experience will find this book refreshingly practical. It encourages us to explore and experiment, to work respectfully and sensitively.' Phil Lapworth, counsellor, psychotherapist, supervisor and author of Tales from the Therapy Room and Listen Carefully.



Book Information
ISBN 9781910919774
Author Matthew Elton
Format Paperback
Page Count 244
Imprint PCCS Books
Publisher PCCS Books
Weight(grams) 320g
Dimensions(mm) 216mm * 138mm * 13mm